FIRST.. I want to apologise for the mistake of yesterday blog... I for some reason was thing a lot about Victory... so I wrote that today is Victoria Day in Canada... I AM 100% WRONG... Sorry about that, but this show how easy our mind can play tricks on us J
In Canada TODAY we Celebrate CANADA DAY... so HAPPY CANADA DAY to all Canadians here in Canada and every other parts of the world...
Well, I will do my best to compensate for my mistake.. how about learning more about How We Can Transform fear into happiness and harmony?
Read more below॥ and hope you will benefit...
Anchoring Your Way to a Happier Life by Jeff Gignac
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Have you ever struggled with your emotions? Have you ever tried to
change your mood because you knew a better state of mind would
better suit whatever it was you were doing?
Years ago I learned a really important lesson: "The more you FEEL
GOOD, the more happy and easy your life will be". I know this
sounds absurdly obvious but this statement actually had and
continues to have a very profound impact on my life and it can do
the same for you।
happiness. This is common sense. Did you know that "feeling good"
as oppose to "Not Bad" or just plain old "BAD", significantly
increases the chance that you will make better decisions?
If you think about this for a moment, it makes sense. Bad feelings
tend to corrupt people's ability to make good decisions. Good
feelings tend to increase people's ability to make good decisions!
So why is this important?
Every decision you make, from what clothes to wear, to how well you
brush your teeth, to the things you say to people, carries with it
short term and / or long term consequences. These consequences will
either make your life easier and happier or they will make your
life harder and less enjoyable. Some consequences will show up
very quickly and others will show up over time.
The bottom line is, your life, as it is now, like it or not, has
been greatly constructed on the back of the good decisions and bad
decisions you've made to this point.
Anchoring Can Help You Build a Happier Life Now, and for the Future
So what is an Anchor anyway? An anchor can be described as
conditioned stimuli that can help you "FEEL the way you want to
FEEL, when you want to FEEL it".
It helps to think of an Anchor as a physical button that you can
push, that will instantly change the way you feel. Imagine what you
could do, if you could create several buttons that are plugged into
your neurology that command you to "FEEL the way you want to FEEL,
when you want to FEEL it" when the button is pushed.
In NLP, we use Anchors for many different reasons. One of my
favourite ways to use them is to improve my mood - my mental and
physical state, so that I am more likely to naturally and easily
make better decisions. I personally use Anchors in this way because
I also enjoy feeling good as opposed to feeling bad.
How can you start using anchors to build a better life?
Do you remember Pavlov's dogs from Psychology 101? If you don't
that's ok because it's a simple process.
Pavlov would put food in front of his dogs, the dogs would
salivate, and then Pavlov would ring a bell. Now Pavlov didn't do
this just once or twice, he did it over and over again. Eventually,
he could get the dogs to salivate simply by ringing the bell, with
no food present.
Once the dogs learned to intimately associate the sound of a bell
with their natural ability to salivate, Pavlov could get these dogs
to reliably and predictably salivate, on command, with just a
bell... zero food.
Anchoring is almost the same thing but for humans. If you do it
right, you can anchor yourself, using a sound, a smell, a visual or
a physical sensation to program yourself to salivate or to feel
something very useful and powerful that will change your life
forever.
Now with humans, I find that the best way to anchor is to use more
than one modality. For example, I like to anchor myself using a
sound and physical sensation.
I usually pinch or press down firmly somewhere specific on my body
for one second as I repeat a word or a phrase to myself in a very
specific way. This way I have a feeling and a sound to help create
a powerful anchor.
Now the trick is picking the right emotion or feeling to anchor. I
often go with powerful and confident but you can pick anything you
like. For me, powerful and confident really helps with a wide
variety of situations like public speaking.
So this is what you do... 10 Simple Steps...
1. Find a quiet place where you will not be disturbed and you will
not disturb others.
2. Decide on a feeling or emotional state that you think would
really benefit you if you could turn it on and feel it in every
pore of your body, on demand.
3. Decide on how you will anchor yourself. If you use my strategy,
you will require a "Power Word" and a location on your body that
you will firmly press on for one second. TIP - It is critically
important that when you anchor yourself that you use the exact
physical location on your body and the exact word with the exact
volume and intonation every time you anchor yourself. When it comes
time to fire off the anchor, you will want to reproduce the exact
physical sensation, in the exact location with the exact sound that
you used when you created the anchor.
4. Get yourself into the physical and emotional state that you want
to anchor. TIP - I like to use music, my imagination, pictures,
body movements, I do whatever it takes to reproduce the emotion
that I want to anchor. Sometimes I will jump around like a buffoon
screaming I am the ruler of the world, just to get my juices going.
My point is, use your body, use your surroundings, and use anything
and everything to help you re-create the state you want to anchor.
5. Once you are feeling the feeling you want to feel and you are
just about to reach the climax of this state, anchor yourself using
the method that you have chosen. TIP - You want to make certain
that you anchor yourself just before you reach the apex of the
emotion (as the emotions is still increasing in intensity in your
body) you want to avoid creating an anchor as the feeling is losing
intensity. It is really important that you create the anchor as the
intensity is still increasing!
6. Once you've anchored the emotion, shake it off... return
yourself to a neutral state
7. Repeat the anchoring process 10 times or until you can fire off
that anchor and your body begins to instantly respond by calling up
the emotion that you anchored
8. Fire off the anchor to test to see if it works. If you begin to
feel the feeling you were going for when you fire off the anchor,
you've succeeded. TIP You may not feel the feeling with the exact
same intensity, that's ok as long as the feeling is strong enough
to counteract a bad mood or negative experience
9. Use the anchor in everyday life to help improve your moods and
help you make better decisions.
10. Every now and again, go and re-anchor the feeling just to
keep it working nice and strong.
Final Thoughts
Anchoring takes practice, the more you do it, the more you
will be able to create powerful anchors that you can use for
a variety of reasons. Believe me when I tell you the
possibilities are endless.
When I first started, my anchors were weak, they barely did the
job. I would have to go back and re-anchor the feelings very often.
After a couple months of practicing building anchors, I found it
easier to do and my anchors became very powerful. I now have
anchors that I built years ago that work just as good as the day I
made them.
Encourage yourself to learn the process and keep at it because once
you get really good at anchoring yourself, you can make doors swing
wide open for you by using just a little bit of creativity. You can
also feel good more often and begin transforming your life into the
masterpiece that it deserves to be.
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