"I don't like that guy, that girl or what ever...," yes, that is what we usually say... correct?
Most times had wondered my self the same... so now it may be the best time to clear the air a little :-)
As it turns out, what we say in regard to what we do not like or do not agree with, is related with doing some business together with someone or having some personal communication at some level.
All that could have taken place years ago, but since we are bothered by it, it means that we do have it imprinted in our memory bank, and one reason I can think of is that probably did not go well for us and that is the reason why we are still bothered with it.
As we all know, once someone insist on us to explain it more clearly what we do not like about anyone or anything, actually we may also feel trapped in some ways and cannot recall what the problem, the challenges, or words or what ever, had been said or done, or touch us so deeply.
In fact, we may not even remember how much damage (physical, emotionally or financial) had been done.
All we may remember is that we didn't like that person or we cannot remember the event or what ever was that we did not like, or what ever have been imprinted negatively in our mind.
All that could have taken place years ago, but since we are bothered by it, it means that we do have it imprinted in our memory bank, and one reason I can think of is that probably did not go well for us and that is the reason why we are still bothered with it.
As we all know, once someone insist on us to explain it more clearly what we do not like about anyone or anything, actually we may also feel trapped in some ways and cannot recall what the problem, the challenges, or words or what ever, had been said or done, or touch us so deeply.
In fact, we may not even remember how much damage (physical, emotionally or financial) had been done.
All we may remember is that we didn't like that person or we cannot remember the event or what ever was that we did not like, or what ever have been imprinted negatively in our mind.
Normally that is the way it usually happen. And if we pay attention to all those comments, letters and complaints in many blogs or any other social media On-line or even, in printed columns elsewhere, we find it to be very common... but here is today revelation; as it turn out, the actual facts may be that what ever was said or done at the time, had very little value or it was very insignificant in many ways.
What we actually remember is not the physical, emotional or financial bang we received on our head, but what we clearly remember is the fair or unfair action towards us, or the fair or unfair treatment we received or any respectful or disrespect we felt from any particular action or reaction at that moment in time.
What we actually remember is not the physical, emotional or financial bang we received on our head, but what we clearly remember is the fair or unfair action towards us, or the fair or unfair treatment we received or any respectful or disrespect we felt from any particular action or reaction at that moment in time.
Now you may ask... why in the world did nick wrote all the above for? Simple, I just read an article and was inspired to share my thought hoping it may serve someone good and to share with you of how important it is to care about what we do, say and think at all times...
With that said, love to suggest for us all to live a noble lifestyle and make certain we will imprint in others our goodness in every way possible and always.... because that is what important for us and if we care about others, we do it because we love how others remember us.
We are loving creatures... so why not act like one?
With that said, love to suggest for us all to live a noble lifestyle and make certain we will imprint in others our goodness in every way possible and always.... because that is what important for us and if we care about others, we do it because we love how others remember us.
We are loving creatures... so why not act like one?
Thanks for reading... please share it with others if you feel it is helpful in some ways..
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